mercredi 1 août 2012

how to tell if your friend is taking advantage of you

friends are one of the most valuable things in life , but sometime we meet someone whom we think is our friend and is in fact , taking advantage out of us.

This article helps you spot those type of friends by various means , if most of these statements is true it's very likely that the person you hangout with is taking advantage of you !
  • only makes contact or agrees to meet if he wants you for something
  • refuses you calls / meetings to hang out with you when he's done using you
  • if you feel your instinct that something is wrong , you better trust it
  • if the persone reacts aggressivly when you act supecious about his behaviours
  • you have a different friend circles
  • tries to avoid you meeting his parents & friends
  • ask for help and see if the person responds
remember that you can always talk about the issue in your relationships , that more likely would resolve it if your initiate a positive conversation free of judgment ( and adjectives ), you can say "it seems that you do..." and "i feel like you do...."  instead of "you always do ...."

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