how to have a serious talk with your friend , boybriend , girlfriend or parent

we all have issue in our relationships , weither it's with a parent , friend , or a partner (boyfriend / girlfriend )
so we must know how to deal with those issue and initiate a serious conversation to cover all these issue positively , this articles  show DOs & DON'Ts of a serious talk

of course , you can always start with the famous "we need to talk" , but it's better to begin with a less dramatic sentence such as "there something i need to tell you" , then wait for an approval and don't just start it.

then you have to express yourself without direct confrontation and use diplomacy , avoid exaggeration , sarcasm and adjectives such as " you are ......." , "you always do...." , " you are so ....." instead you can use sentences like : "i feel you do...." , "sometime it looks like you .....", "is that true?"
you can also remember facts that have happened in your relationship for an explanation.

finally you have to thank the other person of having the talk whatever is the outcome, insist that it's the only healty way to fix things without damage